Brooklyn September 11, 1848 Dear Miss Having been informed of your intimacy with Williamson Wyckoff I have been induced to write you a few lines of caution. If it is a fact that you are keeping his company & permitting yourself in his society, you are keeping the company of & associating with an individual who no respectable person who knows him will or can countenance or permit him in his or her society. It has been intimated that you and he are engaged to be married, suppose this to be so you are then engaged to one who never could even support himself & you must eventually (if you become his wife) suffer for want. You may be deceived from his appearances (mark!) it is not all gold that glitters and although he supports a gold watch & accoutrements & drives a gay horse & wagon & covers his person with broadcloth, the day is not far distant when the rightful owners of all these gaieties will make their appearance. Neither will you be justified in the belief that Williamson Wyckoff is worth any property although he harps exceedingly upon his fathers estate (which is involved in a course of litigation) which he with Garret A. Wyckoff & Abraham A. Wyckoff through a nefarious course of villainy are endeavoring to swindle the honest & just heirs out of, yet a most glorious defeat awaits their vagrant acts. You are now addressed by a person who knows him, who knows his circumstances and who knows the family pretty well and a word of caution bestowed in proper time and duly appreciated will save you a great deal of misery in the future. He is already the father of at least one bastard which he had by a servant girl living in his father's family and for which his father kicked him from under his roof and then between two days he left Long Island and sought shelter in Canada a prey upon the hospitalities of his father's friends. Banished and hissed by every mortal of respect from his native place. And now he seeks to palm himself off upon some innocent and unoffending & respectable female. There is not one redeeming quality in his character, he is a loafing vagrant without any perceptible means of support and the only way he obtains his bread is by spunging & stealing and if you persist in uniting yourself with him you must censure yourself alone if you receive nought but loooks of contempt & scorn from your friends and not say you did not know him, for this is a timely warning bestowed in the best faith that possibly can be bestowed by any mortal. Yours with esteem, a Friend