Your editor's second cousin Rachel (Hollingsworth) Higginbotham
and hubby James "Jim" Higginbotham have now passed their 60tb year to-
gether. The actual anniversary was June 19, 1991. That means they were
married a month and a day before your editor was born (20 July 1931).
He just turned sixty. That's "awesome" to contemplate! See our notice
of the Golden (5Oth) Anniversary in HR June, 1981, pp 35-36. At the
end of that article I said: "Now, Rachel, Dear Cousin, let's go for
the Diamond!" Well, Jim and Rachel took me up on that suggestion and
it came to pass. (See also back cover Picture Gallery in HR June, 1987
when the Higginbothams celebrated their 55th Anniversary (put in HR a
year later). They do not look a bit older now.)
The official celebration was held on 29th June 1991, with an open
house at their home in Yucaipa, California. Some kinsfolk live in oth-
er states, so it was set a week later. No matter. It was a great day.
Your editor was Present this time; I missed the 1981 celebration be-
cause my refrigerator suddenly failed and I had to go get another used
one as quick as possible. At that time they lived at Huntington Park,
California. Yucaipa is way outside of Los Angeles, in San Bernardino
County near the Riverside County line. The nearest big town is Redlands.
I took 5 hours on local buses and the Greyhound. At the depot in
L.A. Door 13 was called for Redlands. My parents would have said it
was a bad 'sign,' bless them - show business folks are superstitious.
Then a pigeon was found flying around inside the depot, barely miss-
ing the heads of patrons as it flew around desperately looking for the
"window to the coop." Mom and Dad would both have cried out about this
as a really "Ill Omen." Well, I am not superstitious and am a debunker
of such stuff in a minor way. But these turned out to be true: the
coach failed and we waited fully forty minutes for a new one to drive
up to Door 13. Just before that event, the pigeon found an open door
and was gone in the twinkling of an eye.
Arriving several hours later at Redlands, I called Rachel, who dis-
patched her son Doug, who, because he lives in Arizona, did not find me
for another 45 minutes. Other than that, everything went smoothly.
By the time I arrived at the neat little cottage, many guests had
come and gone, perhaps a hundred in all, the family and the members of
the church. My brother John and wife Dolores were there. John had not
seen Jim and Rachel for about 57 years. So it was a grand reunion. The
whole affair was a cheery love fest with cake, coffee, and snacks. The
house is located in a quiet neighborhood. Big trees shelter the back of
it, with a slope well planted. It smelled like a forest, which is some-
thing you have to experience to appreciate fully. Yet, it's not a large
estate, just a cozy place to live. All four of the children had either
been there or were still there when I arrived. Many of the grandchild-
ren and great-grandchildren came too, about whom we had written in this
journal but never met before.
So passed the Diamond Wedding Anniversary. Well, Jim and Rachel,
let's go for the 75th (also sometimes called the Diamond) Anniversary.
I may not be there, but have a great time just the same.
God bless.